The holidays are supposed to be a magical time, especially for children. From meeting Santa, to opening presents and spending time with their loved ones. Maintaining stability and togetherness throughout the festive period is key for their emotional wellbeing. Having an agreement as to child arrangements in place provides a sense of security for not only your children, but also you as parents. If you have an agreement in writing, this will allow you to refer back to the agreement should any issues arise.
Family law recognises the importance of preserving meaningful relationships with both parents, with the child’s welfare being the court’s paramount consideration. It is therefore important for children to spend quality time with both parents over Christmas wherever possible, whether this involves alternating Christmas Day and Boxing Day between parents or splitting Christmas Day with clear handover times.
Christmas is a joyful time for children, so it is important that they do not remember their Christmas’ as being a time of conflict. It is important to not let any animosity between you and your ex-partner get in the way of your child having a memorable Christmas. Try to discuss matters amicably with your ex-partner as this would not only make you, as parents happier, but also your children as it is important that they have a smooth transition between parents’ houses over the festive period.
Mediation is a useful method to try and agree child arrangements amicably between yourselves.
Don’t wait until December to address Christmas arrangements; it is important to try and make sure that you can come to an agreement as to child arrangements early. This allows for time to resolve any issues which may arise. Once this is agreed, you will be able to organise your Christmas plans early knowing exactly who you will be seeing and when, before the run up to Christmas! This is important for the children as it provides them with stability which is in their best interests. If an amicable agreement cannot be reached between yourselves, this is when an application for a Child Arrangements Order can be made.
Co-parenting over Christmas isn’t easy, but it doesn’t have to turn into a seasonal battle. If you and your ex-partner are struggling to reach an amicable agreement between yourselves, this is where Holmes & Hills LLP can step in and help. Our family law specialists will help ensure your child enjoys the magic of Christmas while maintaining important relationships with both parents.
Holmes & Hills LLP offer an initial discounted consultation for those seeing legal advice from one of our Family Solicitors. Within this appointment, we will take the time to understand your situation and your desired outcome. If you would like to book in an initial meeting, then please do not hesitate to contact us.
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